Ultimate magazine theme for WordPress.

For Loved Ones, Goodbye-Blues Are Better Than Silence!




A picture of Oroh when he was  a little boy

Gone, But Not Forgotten: my loving brother, Oroh Orivri


By Obaro 

For those we love, we always want to be with all the
time. But at some point, a natural need arises for us to be away from each
other, and people often find it difficult to say a simple ‘goodbye.’

While separation for a short while is hard, the
comforting factor is that the person is only going to be away for some time;
probably for a year of two in school or work, and better if it’s only a short
holiday somewhere, and tougher when it’s a journey forever!

Memories are powerful; they replay in our mind’s eyes,
giving us something to keep and feel, and actually better than emptiness.

I remember how challenging the evening of February 14th
was.  A call came in that a loved one was
down with fever at the hospital and that he wasn’t getting any better. We embarked
on a trip that took us round and about, and finally helpless!



 I felt the
frustration of talking to a loved one who would not respond even though you sat
so close and spoke the best of words. I felt the power of love that wouldn’t
let go of a loved one, yet, ‘the sleep’ was sweet; certainly not for the rest
of ‘us’, but for him. 



He wouldn’t want to be disturbed at this time. His
right hand, carefully placed across his broad chest, was like a guard. I stole
several looks and muttered several wishes as the driving continued.
Finally, he was to make a stop-over for some time
before the final lap of the journey. I felt a rush from my heart to my eyes. I
waved and said goodbye, but he failed to respond because it was late and he was
hurrying to go and rest— for a lifetime!

8 Comments
  1. Myne says

    He looks so cute. May his soul continue to rest in peace. And may your family be consoled.

  2. dayor says

    I'm so sorry. May his soul find perfect peace. God 'll strenghten your heart. (((Hugs)))

  3. Eya Ayambem says

    Rest In Peace Roro. THIS IS SO SO TOUCHING.

  4. onepageafrica says

    Great thanks to you all; Myne, Dayor and Eya, for your words of encouragement. May this kind of affliction not arise again IJN.Amen!

  5. ZubyMORAH says

    Really touching. We pray that God gives the bereaved family the fortitude to bear the loss. Amen

  6. onepageafrica says

    Thanks a lot Zuby.

  7. Unknown says

    My dear brother I never had the oppotunity of saying a final goodbye but I know u are resting with the Lord. I can never forget the last time I saw u on the 24th of January u were so happy to see me but I didn't have enough time to talk with u. I can't forget your smile as you wished me a safe trip. I cannot also forget your words when we spoke while u lay on your sick bed on the 14th of february. You sounded strong little did I know that was the last time I would talk with you. Your voice keeps ringing in my head even as I'm writing this.
    I know u are better off where u are now. I pray God will grant all of us the fortitude to bear this loss.
    Sleep on my dear brother untill we meet to part no more.
    We love u but God loves u more.

  8. onepageafrica says

    He came, and loved all whom he shared a bond with, and importantly, God allowed him exit when it was his time to. Healing comes by the day and God's comfort will not leave this family.Amen!

Leave A Reply

Your email address will not be published.